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76 Prospect Street
Rockville-Vernon, CT 06066
Phone: (860) 875-5490
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Mary Smith

Mary Antionette "Toni" Smith (Bender)

Thursday, December 1st, 1938 - Wednesday, August 28th, 2019
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Mary A. (Bender) Smith, “Toni”, 80, of Coventry died peacefully on Wednesday, August 28, 2019 at home. She was born in Shenandoah, PA to the late Anthony and Mary (Whitecavage) Bender. She grew up in Rockville. She was an avid reader and enjoyed decorating, crafts and seeing the latest movies. She also loved to cook for her family. Mary is survived by her children, her son Anthony Smith and his wife Judith of Manchester, her daughter Lisa DeGray of Coventry and Shari McDermott and her husband Steven of Coventry. Her grandchildren; Quinn, Devin, Jessica, Joannah, and Ashley; her great grandchildren, Vincent, Dominick, Kendall, James, Holden and Henry. She was predeceased by her husband Charles V. Smith, Jr. in 2006. She will be greatly missed by her family and many friends. Relatives and friends may join the family from 4 – 7 pm on Wednesday, September 4, 2019 at Burke-Fortin Funeral Home, Rockville. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Thursday, September 5, 2019 at 11:00 am at Blessed Sacrament Parish - St. Bernard Church, 25 St. Bernard Terrace, Rockville. Burial will be held privately at the convenience of the family. For online condolences please visit
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  • Visitation

    Wednesday, September 4th, 2019 | 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Wednesday, September 4th, 2019 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Burke-Fortin Funeral Home
    76 Prospect Street
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  • Service

    Thursday, September 5th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Thursday, September 5th, 2019 11:00am
    St. Bernard's Church
    25 St. Bernard Terrace
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    Please meet directly at church
  • Interment

    St. Bernard Cemetery
    Kingsbury Ave.
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    To be held privately at the convenience of the family


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Nancy Flannery

Posted at 12:40pm
Tony, Judy & family, So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you all. Nancy Flannery

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Toni, until we meet again, I shall miss you greatly.
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